It has been yonks since my last post, just felt like it today, this very moment.

“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect.

But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can.

He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment,

but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break.

Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give.

Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad,

and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had.

Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”

Bob Marley

and it made me realise something.

hmmm . . . and I wonder.

^______^

bwahahaha!! 

 so cute!!

 :) 

Temptation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . is a very scary thing.

However, can one refrain from it or give in to it? The question lies within you and your actions. If you yearn for excitement, then, by all means, go ahead and enjoy the ride. If you are settled but still want to look for fun, then, be prepared with all the lies and betrayals coming your way.

So, how can you really believe the person you are with? Do their histories make them think differently? Do their past relationships shape who they are? Or, do you not care about the past and rather move on? I think the main question is how much you want to trust them or are they worth trusting.

Le Sigh.

*too many questions, too many answers, but don't know which to believe*

awwwww... 

scho cuuuuteee!

my new favourite pet!

and I WANT ONE!!

 

and check this video out: Sea Otter pup grooming
 

Current Favorite picture :)

*heart heart*

Beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!!!

XD

* * * * *
You can lie to everyone else in the world

but you can't lie to yourself.

* * * * *

that conversation definitely opened a can of worms cos it made me think more and it upsets me now just pondering over it *sigh* there are things that i cant seem to accept and i dunno if it will last forever.

well, perfect relationships does not exist, obviously!! I guess it depends on the commitment level and how both of them can work it out. they have to deal with the imperfections of a relationship and sort it out. hmmm.... its easy to say, hard to do.

so then, MAKE IT HAPPEN! SORT IT OUT!

*baaaaah*

a friend shared this very interesting article from The Star. Seriously, ponder over it whether or not you are in a relationship. The person that you visualize at that very moment could potentially be the one you have been waiting for. So ...... you need to think carefully if you can be with that person for the next 50 years to come. That's right, all the commitment, the quirks, the pet peeves and everything else that might or might not annoy the hell out of you. If you can live with that like, forever and ever and ever and like seriously FOREVER, then, congrats! you found the ONE!

EVERY year on Feb 14, the world takes delight in celebrating Valentine’s Day - a special occasion in which people celebrate and express love, feelings for each other and develop a sense of belonging and friendship.

To love and be loved by someone is the most beautiful, moving, fulfilling and fantastic human emotion and experience!

Question is: Is the love we so talk and desire about real, genuine, permanent and unconditional?

Is it true to the very sense of the word - LOVE?

True love knows no bounds and consists of great sacrifice and care. It also embraces compassion, kindness, respect and thoughtfulness.

Genuine love has our interests at heart and it goes beyond sex, passion and sensual gratification. This love is the best and most mature in every way.

Real love comes with a lot of responsibility, commitment, understanding, tolerance, acceptance and humility.

It is true that in today’s world, it is easy to fall in love but to further develop, maintain and sustain the great feeling is another matter altogether.

The many divorces, marital breakdowns, broken families, suicides out of failed marriages and relationships, extra-marital affairs, one night stands and wild sex bring to mind just how people nowadays regard, treat and value the sanctity of love?

It is sad but true that people take love for granted and in the words of the great writer Robert Browing: “Take away love and with earth is a tomb”.

The world will indeed be a meaningless and cold place if it is devoid of love – the most powerful force in humans.

As we look around today, there is simply too much conflict, hostility, unrest, sorrow, fear, suffering and pain taking place the world over.

The time has come for us to turn hatred and ignorance into love and wisdom.

It is time everyone started to be more considerate and responsible and played a role in promoting the virtues of friendliness, kindness, compassion, forgiveness and giving.

Together, we can all make a difference and contribute towards making a better, merrier and meaningful world for all to live in.

Let us not hate but love each other instead and live by one spirit, one heart, and one aspiration as members of the human race!

Happy Valentine’s Day to all.

Merry Merry ~

Communication and trust is the #1 way
to secure your spot in someone's heart.

and

. . .

Trust is earned,

because,

I can't just magically hand it over.

Believe.

woke up with the weirdest dream ever last night about some dancing competition and my traffic manager was my instructor!! -___-'''

Ho Mai Gaawwwddd!!

then, during lunch, had the weirdest conversation ever about ladies stuff. again, im like . . .

Ho Mai Gaawwwddd!!

seriously!?!?

well, today was just . . .

people let u down at times and you ask yourselves, why does this always happen? well, isn't it obvious? . . . because . . . we are all humans and nobody is perfect.

the only way to not feel disappointed and upset is to have no expectations, like i always say. then again, does that really help or is that just another wall that you're building?

let's just say, even if it was the slightest expectation and it was not met, I'm sure it will definitely bother you in someway. so, how do you solve that problem? to have no expectations at all? to not feel anything so that it wouldn't hurt you? to control your emotions to not needing them?

things will turn out of control and you will feel frustrated. eventually, you just feel like giving up. who will then save you from drowning? who will then pull you out from the darkness? who will then stay with you till the end?

but, has it ever crossed your mind, that it was probably your own actions and behavior that led you to where you are? that brought you deeper into that black hole you created?

hmmm, i guess, there is something to reflect on tonight.

*strange*

I wanted to know, therefore, I asked.

BUT,

after I gained access to the information . . .

I wish I didn't.

although, it doesn't mean anything.

and, it was in the past.

SOMEHOW,

i just regretted.

-__-'''

"Sometimes . . .

you miss someone,

not because you haven’t seen them in so long,

but,

the kind where you spend a whole night

cuddled up in bed laughing,

and then you go home the next day,

and you get into bed expecting their arms to wrap around you,

and when they don’t,

your heart feels like it’s sinking"

:'(

oh no. its coming back again and i dun like this feeling. the problem is . . . this time around, it doesn't feel like before and that is what frightens me most.

*sigh*

i honestly don't know if its a good thing or bad thing. well, so far, it don't feel great. i tried not feeling this way but somehow, it just gets to me. maybe there is a missing link somewhere. i do fear that it will tear me apart if it goes on and i did nothing to save it. so, question is, WHY am i not doing anything?

it ultimately depends on what you choose to do in the end.

It takes 1 + 1 to do it.
Keep connected.
Believe.

can we both see each other like clear crystals . . . ??

can we, really??

We are afraid to care too much,

for fear that the other person does not care at all.

: : Upside Down Llama : :

yew totally made my day.

Thank yeeeeeeeeeeew!!

cos yew is aweeeeesomeeee!!

^____________^

*heeeeeeeeeeee*

and the story begins with . . .

Brinjals went on a last minute journey,

found a nice room and decided to stay the nite.


i started to have my own fun with Mr.Tiger

:)


and there he goes again wandering around,

picking flowers,

playing with bugs,

enjoying the last few hours . . .


and . . .

that's when i joined him


: : the end : :

i had a not-very-far-getaway from town and it was awesome!!! it was pure chilling out to absolute of nothingness.

guess it just boils down to who the company was that made it so amazing while doing nothing at all.

^____________^

loved it. enjoyed it. cherished it.

but, awwwww maaaaaan, i wished it lasted cos it ended so fast :( then again, look forward to better and longer longer ones.

thank yeeeeeeeeew very much!
 

AWESOME!!

this made my day!!

so stooopid!!!!

HAHAHAHA

:D