Thursday, July 15, 2010

is there a person where u feel safe expressing all ur feelings and honest thoughts with?
he/she may turn out to be ur soulmate, like totally!!

*haha*

and yes, i came across another article about relationships again!
wats with me lately? wat the hell? everything js pops up for me to read.

hmmmmm~

so, then, suddenly, my musing brain got turned on.

feeling safe means u can communicate openly with this person. u would talk about everything and anything under the sun, the moon, the star. i mean like super random stuff can js come out of ur mouth without even thinking and both didnt mind talking about it.

isnt that cool?? :O)

which then brings me to, the whole basis of having good communication is, of cos, TRUST!!

lets say that, when u express ur honest opinions/thoughts about sumtin that happened, hopefully ur other half understands and u wun get *ahem* hurt or killed?
then again, which also brings me to ask, if u do feel uncomfy expressing it, like, ur afraid to, wudn't that mean sumtin else?

unless, u did sumtin wrong or it wud upset the other.
however, y do u do it in the first place if u feel that way? if u feel that it wud hurt the other?

am i right?

wud u then lie about it or tell the truth? cos tis will bring back to wat i always use to say . . . white lie about sumtin cos u dun wanna hurt the person u love~ (Previous post)

oh i duno.

i guess, be honest with yourself and ur other half. u always have to make sure you feel emotionally n physically safe with him/her. ahhhhh~ dun end up saying mean and hurtful things to each other when ur arguing.

super unhealthy and it'll end up saying bye bye, relationship.

ok. here. leave u with sumtin dark but funny *haha*

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